I cum too quick with my first time bate buddy

Submitted by Orlando

I finally got the courage up to meet a guy for a shared wank and it was amazing, but I cum too quickly.

I’ve been thinking about trying some cock play with another guy for a few months and I decided to start looking for someone to have a first time bate session with and found this guy not far from me.

We met up at the pub and had a chat and a couple of beers and then we went back to his house. It was going well and we had a lot in common. He was a straight guy but just a bit curious about wanking with other guys and said he’d had a couple of experiences when he was younger and wanked a guy off a few months before but other than that he was pretty new to it all too.

That really made me feel better about things because this was all new to me and I was nervous about it.

We went back to his house and he said something about doing a cum tribute but that we wouldn’t film it. I didn’t know what that was but it’s apparently a thing guys do where they print out a pic of a hot celeb and shoot a load over it, then post the video.

I don’t know the name of the girl he’d printed out but she was hot. He put the pic on top of a box and we both knelt either side of it and started wanking. He had a really nice cock and I was thinking about reaching out and wanking him off but I didn’t have time.

As soon as the tips of our cocks touched I started cumming all over his dick and it triggered his load and he started splashing his jizz all over my dick.

It’s never happened to me before. I can fuck my girlfriend for an hour before I shoot off but the moment our dicks touched I was shooting it off all over him. It was embarrassing. He tried to play it down and say it was normal but I know it was a disappointing experience for him. We didn’t even stroke each other before it was over and our dicks were dripping.

I want to meet up with him again for another go but I’m worried it’s gonna happen again. Do you have any tips to make it last longer?

Thanks

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Hi Orlando,

Believe it or not, this is pretty common. I’ve done it a few times, when I’ve been especially horny. I’ve had other guys do it too and it honestly isn’t a big deal, we get it, sometimes that dick is uncontrollable and you can’t help it if you’re so turned on you need to blast it.

Making contact with another guy’s dick for the first time can have various results. Some guys go a little soft with the nervousness of it all, others can’t stop their load from squirting. Neither is a deal-breaker for most bators and we all understand what it’s like.

Practice makes perfect. It might happen a few times before things start to calm down a little and you get used to the feel of another cock, but you could try some things like applying pressure to the taint (right behind the balls) when you feel the need to cum creeping up suddenly.

You could spend some time learning to edge at home, working on controlling your cum load and stopping yourself from letting it go. Most of the time you’re gonna feel the pleasure rising quickly but you can teach yourself how to stop it and practicing this on your own will improve your experience with another bator.

I don’t know if you’re one of those guys who reloads quickly, but if it happens next time maybe see about sticking around and going for another load with him? In my experience if a guy is that turned on by it he cums quickly there’s usually an opportunity to cum again, and the second stroke session will usually take more effort and time to reach a conclusion.

I hope that helps, please let us know how it goes!

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