I was a member of a wank club in the 90’s

Submitted by Charlie the Squirter

I read your post about wank clubs and I was inspired to tell you my story about getting into the scene when I was 21.

This was back in ’93, so a few years before the Internet really became a prominent tool for sexual adventures. I had no idea wank clubs existed and I’d never done anything like that with any of my friends. Well, I had one wank with a friend when he nicked a couple of porn mags from his dad and we went to the garage to rub one out but there was no touching and I didn’t even see his cum shot.

One of my friends from work at the time told me about a party and said there were gonna be strippers there. I don’t know how he found out about it at the time but I later worked out that this neighbour was a member of the club and they’d been wanking together for a couple of years.

That’s probably the most memorable moment for me. I think that’s when I really decided that I wanted to keep coming back. The sight of three cocks all ejaculating at the same time, streaks of wet white goo flying out of our dicks and splashing together while the most incredible pleasure a man can experience was rushing through all of us, it was tribal and raw, entirely natural and the most incredible sexual experience I’d ever had.

We went to this old house in Mayfair (weird for a couple of working-class London lads like us, it’s a really posh place) and we were let in by a big guy on the door. It was strange walking into a big quiet house late at night. Apart from a couple of cars outside there was no sign of a party going on, definitely not like the kind of parties I was used to.

We went up some stairs past some old paintings on the walls and walked right into an interesting scene with about 20 guys all naked and in various states of wanking pleasure. Apart from a couple of guys wearing boxers we were the only clothed guys there and we were immediately out of place.

I had no idea this is what it was gonna be like and I was shitting myself. Apart from one big-titted girl dancing naked in the middle of the room it was only guys there and I almost had an argument with my friend about getting out and going to the pub down the road instead. Then a guy came over and introduced himself, his big cock out and swinging around. He poured us a couple of drinks (I remember thinking this was risky and I watched him pour one for himself from the same bottle. I didn’t drink mine until I saw him drinking his).

He was actually a really nice guy and after he told us a little bit about the club and how things were I felt a lot better about it all. He assured us that more girls were coming (eventually only one other girl turned up that night, but three male strippers did) and we didn’t have to do anything we didn’t want to. He made it clear it was just a place for men to be men and enjoy their cocks and that it was all very respectful and relaxed. He pointed to an older guy (the guy we were talking to was in his 30’s) and said he was the owner and wouldn’t stand for any rudeness among his guests.

He showed us to a bedroom and told us we could put our clothes in there. We were given boxes to put everything in. While we were taking our clothes off and I was still arguing with my friend about maybe just going to the pub (damn I was such a pussy! lol) another big guy walked in. He was really friendly too, welcoming us to the party and telling us he’d been going for six months and worked as a stripper. He was being paid to spend a couple of hours wanking and showing off for the other guys but he admitted that he would probably still be there even if he wasn’t being paid, he swore us to secrecy about that because he was being paid £1500 a night.

Interesting fact; I wanked with that stripper for years after the parties ended. He moved to the US in ’02 but we still meet up whenever he comes back to the UK.

He helped a lot. His confidence and easygoing attitude, and his wedding ring too, really put me at ease. I think he was worried that some of the other men might be a little hands-on with us because we were “fresh dick” and it might scare us away, and just like the first guy we met he told us to come and tell him if we got harassed by anyone. To be fair me and my friend were both pretty good looking lads and we were pretty fit too. We played football and worked out. We took care of ourselves. We both had girlfriends and we were at that age where even a hair out of place is a big deal lol

Now I’m older I can understand why we would get a lot of attention as new guys in this scene but we didn’t get any unwanted attention at all.

I later found out there was one guy they’d kicked out the month before because he got too drunk and started causing a scene and harassing some of the other guys. I never saw any of that but I heard stories about him for months and everyone seemed to have a different one to tell.

After getting naked and jokingly showing each other our cocks, both hard by this point, we followed the stripper out into the main room and he got a cheer from the other men, but it felt like they were cheering for us lol

For the next half an hour we just sat around watching guys wanking, jerking each other, frotting cocks and cumming. To be honest we spent most of the night talking to each other and not really being very sociable at all, looking back on it I compare that first night to watching a nature documentary lol

We watched the two strippers (our new friend and the girl) putting on an erotic show which was amazing, we had another couple of drinks, we talked to a few more guys and eventually started hanging around with the first guy we met, the guy who gave us a drink when we walked in. He was actually one of the fittest men there and he had a nice cock with big balls swinging between his thighs. I later found out he was a decorator and he actually helped me move into my first flat with my girlfriend and painted all the rooms for us on the cheap.

I can’t remember all the details of that night or the exact order of things but I know we had a fucking great time. We met a lot of guys and saw the strippers performing, we found another room where porn was playing and three guys were wanking each other off, we watched another male stripper not much older than us put on a long wank show and finished it by shooting the biggest load I’d seen by that point right in his own face. That got cheers from the crowd and three guys stood to squirt cum watching it. I remember trying to play chess with an older guy and losing within five minutes, a bizarre little moment but something I soon got used to.

My and my friend both wanked off and watched each other cumming over a towel on the floor while another couple of guys stood over us watching and wanking each other and cheering us on. We hung around for another hour watching other guys cumming and seeing one of the female strippers using a dildo. Then we grabbed another towel and wanked off again before leaving, this time the guy we met when we arrived joined us and shot his second load of the night just when me and my friend were cumming.

That’s probably the most memorable moment for me. I think that’s when I really decided that I wanted to keep coming back. The sight of three cocks all ejaculating at the same time, streaks of wet white goo flying out of our dicks and splashing together while the most incredible pleasure a man can experience was rushing through all of us, it was tribal and raw, entirely natural and the most incredible sexual experience I’d ever had. The first time seeing my friend cumming while I did was amazing, but the second one with our new friend is the most memorable for me.

It was an incredible night and it opened my eyes to a lot of things. Before then I just thought that you did things a certain way, that you go out with a few girls, get plenty of pussy, end up knocking one of them up and get married lol

I did eventually get married and started a family. She knows all about my experiences and enjoys hearing about the club. I was honest with her from the start and she understands my sexual attitudes when it comes to masturbation and sharing it with other men. She’s had her own experiences with female friends in the past and I love hearing about those too. She’s not interested in continuing that herself now but she’s perfectly fine with me wanking off with other guys.

I’ll wrap it up here and say that what you wrote about what it’s like at a wank club matches my experiences. My experience of it was with a diverse group of men, different ages, different races, different backgrounds and sexual interests, it was all very respectful and once we got into the scene on that first night it was easy to keep going back. I met so many friends going to those parties, we lost members and had funerals, we celebrated birthdays and marriages, we invited new guys in and I became that guy welcoming the “fresh dick” with a drink and assurances that everything was cool.

It was where I felt another man’s cock for the first time (and shamefully started cumming uncontrollably within about ten seconds lol). It was where I had two guys edging me for half an hour before I had one of the biggest climaxes of my life. It was where I rubbed dicks with my best friend for the first time and it was where I had three men cum over my cock making me shoot one of the biggest loads my dick has ever shot.

Things have definitely changed with the Internet and guys seem less interested in groups like that and more interested in immediate gratification with a stranger in a park for ten minutes after hooking up on an app. It’s sad that these little horny communities aren’t as prevalent as they used to be, guys could learn a lot more about themselves and each other if they were more willing to engage in friendships like this instead of random and hasty wanks with strangers.

It would be great to combine the two, have the technology to connect while investing some time into actually building friendships where this kind of horny fun can be freely shared. I guess that’s why sites like this exist though!

Thank you for running this site. The promotion of the idea that men should enjoy their masturbation and experience this kind of friendship with others is very much needed, in my opinion.

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8 thoughts on “I was a member of a wank club in the 90’s

  • August 5, 2018 at 4:04 pm
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    Sounds like the hottest thing ever

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    • August 5, 2018 at 5:02 pm
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      It was a lot of fun. I would highly recommend every man explore an experience like it at least once. You never know how much fun you might have if you just dare to explore something new.

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  • August 5, 2018 at 5:01 pm
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    Thanks for sharing my experience. I hope readers can learn something from it and maybe enjoy some of the same parties I enjoyed with the group back in the day.

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    • August 5, 2018 at 5:45 pm
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      Thank you for sharing your experience Charlie! It’s very similar to parties I’ve been to in the last few years. You wrote that things have changed since you were attending your first and while I would agree I think there are a lot of great groups out there and the scene is going strong in a lot of major cities. Maybe we’re seeing a renaissance of bate clubs? It certainly seems to me that a lot of guys are more open to the idea than used to be the case, that can only be a good thing.

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  • August 6, 2018 at 11:49 am
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    i love reading about wank clubs like this its so hot and gets my cock dripping. don’t have the guts to find a club though.

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    • August 6, 2018 at 12:01 pm
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      Wank clubs can be intimidating for first-time guests. I said it on another one of your comments but I’ll say it here too for others who might read this, you might be better looking for a one-on-one wank meet before you dive into the scene. Build up your confidence with one or two guys first. There are loads of guys out there who would gladly help you out with your dick and rub out some loads with you to get you started 🙂

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  • August 7, 2018 at 8:13 am
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    Fucking hot experience mate! Been in a couple of group wanks but they were all unplanned and just lads being lads but this sounds like my kind of party.

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  • August 10, 2018 at 4:34 pm
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    Thanks for telling us all about your introduction to the scene, Charlie. Do you still wank with your mate?

    I’ve been to a number of clubs over the years but never really felt comfortable because they have all turned out to be a cover for guys cruising for sex, rather than just a comfortable gathering of mates who enjoy wanking together. Either that or there are restrictions on age, looks, how clothed you stay (there shouldn’t be demands that everyone gets fully naked, some people aren’t comfortable and others have body issues or issues resulting from medical/surgical attention) etc.

    I love the idea of mates who are just comfortable together, who can chill out with a drink, with their cocks out in front of each other, who can openly wank and watch each other wanking, just as you have described. That’s why I joined BuddyBate, to share and/or meet with like minded guys who are not looking for sex but view masturbation as a social pastime, mates that you can sit in the pub having a beer with and chatting about TV or sport, half an hour after you’ve both been sitting in front of each other, with your cocks out, wanking hard together.

    Now I’ve just got to find someone like-minded or a like-minded group of guys! Such a shame that the forum has gone now and that it was so unused.

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